These past few days have been a whirlwind of emotions for me, as my son, Logan, is about to embark on a new adventure – middle school! I can hardly believe how time has flown, especially when Facebook likes to remind me of how far he’s come in 13 years. Looking back at the struggles and challenges he faced when he was younger, I can’t help but feel immense pride in how far he’s come.
Excitement and Bittersweetness
As this new school year approaches, my heart is filled with both excitement and a tinge of bittersweetness. Logan absolutely loves school – he’d gladly sleep there on weekends if they allowed it! While he still has 9 more years left in public school (kids in GA can attend until age 22), I can’t help but wonder how quickly the next decade will pass. It’s a mix of joy and sadness, but also a little bit of “what comes after?”
Thoughts About the Future
Back in the day, these thoughts used to consume me. I’d dwell on the future and worry myself sick about what lies ahead. But I’ve learned something that I’d love to share with you – it’s okay to think about the future and plan. As parents, it’s natural to consider what’s next for our children, whether they have special needs or not. It’s a responsible thing to do.
Choosing Not to Dwell in Constant Worry
However, getting stuck in that place of constant worry doesn’t serve us or anyone else. The future is filled with unknowns, and we can’t predict what life will be like for us or our child years from now. So, when these thoughts visit me, I acknowledge them, spend a little time brainstorming and imagining, and then I choose not to dwell and worry. Life is unpredictable, and I’d rather focus on the present and enjoy these precious moments right now.
You’re Not Alone
Do you find yourself caught up in these thoughts often? Does it lead you down a cycle of constant worry and gloom? If so, I want to remind you that none of us can control the future. It’s okay to think about it, but it’s essential not to get stuck in that place of anxiety.
Finding support and connecting with others who are on a similar journey can be incredibly helpful. You’re not alone, and there are many fellow special needs parents who can empathize and offer valuable insights.
Embracing the New School Year Together
As we approach this new school year, I’d love to hear from you. How are you feeling about the upcoming changes? Are you excited, relieved, or maybe a little nervous? Share your thoughts, and let’s support each other on this beautiful and unpredictable journey.